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Intolerable Violence

"Abuses against women are relentless, systematic, and widely tolerated,
if not explicitly condoned."
-http://www.hrw.org/women/women © Copyright 2004, HRC

"We live in a world in which women do not have basic control over what happens to their bodies. Millions of women and girls are forced to marry and have sex with men they do not desire. Women are unable to depend on the government to protect them from physical violence in the home, with sometimes fatal consequences, including increased risk of HIV/AIDS infection. Women in state custody face sexual assault by their jailers. Women are punished for having sex outside of marriage or with a person of their choosing (rather than of their family's choosing). Husbands and other male family members obstruct or dictate women's access to reproductive health care. Doctors and government officials disproportionately target women from disadvantaged or marginalized communities for coercive family planning policies." -HRC Watch 2004
 

An estimated 135 million girls have undergone Female Genital Mutilation. That is approximately 6,000 procedures per day.(Amnesty Int’l, 3) (womynkind.org)
 
You are more likely to get killed, injured, or physically attacked in your own home by someone to whom you are related than in any other social context. Dr. Richard Gelles "Parents Magazine" Sept. 1984
 
Nearly 6 million wives will be abused by their husbands in any one year. Time magazine Sept. 5 1983

80% of the male participants in a Minneapolis, MN violence-control program grew up in homes where they saw or were victims of physical, sexual or other abuse. Time 7/4/94

Violence appears to become a family behavior over time. About 1/3 of all battered women report having grown up in violent families.

Two million women are beaten every year. Time 7/5/94

Every 9 seconds a woman is battered in the U.S.(//www.womynkind.org/edu.htm)

Violence appears to become a family behavior over time. About 1/3 of all battered women report having grown up in violent families. (//www.womynkind.org/edu.htm)

Physical Consequences of FGM/FGC:
 
It is impossible to estimate the number of deaths, since the nature of the operation requires that unsuccessful attempts be concealed from strangers and health authorities, and a very small proportion of cases of immediate complication reach hospital. Nevertheless, hospital staff in all the areas concerned are very familiar with last minute and often hopeless attempts to save bleeding, terrified little girls. Operators are not held responsible by parents if death or infection result from the operation.
    Long-term complications: Chronic infections of the uterus and vagina are frequent, the vagina having become, in the case of infibulation, a semi-sealed organ. Sometimes a large foreign body forms in the interior of the vagina as a result of the accumulation of mucous secretions. Keloid scar formation on the vulval wound can become so enlarged as to obstruct walking. The growth of implantation dermoid cysts as large as a grapefruit is not rare. Fistula formation (due to obstructed labour -- rupture of the vagina and/or uterus) causes incontinence in later life, so that many mutilated women are continually dribbling urine. ...
 
from "Female circumcision, excision, and infibulation: facts and proposals for change (Revised 1983 edition)"
Report No 47 of the Minority Rights Group, 29 Craven Street, London WC2.  The identifying number for this series of reports is ISSN:0305-6252.

by Jacques Lantier in La Cite Magique [Editions Fayard 1972, translation by the writer]. Lantier goes on to describe the wedding night in Somalia when the husband, having beaten his wife with a leather whip, uses a dagger to open her:
    `According to tradition, the husband should have prolonged and repeated intercourse with her during eight days. This "work" is in order to "make" an opening by preventing the scar from closing again. During these eight days, the woman remains lying down and moves as little as possible in order to keep the wound open. The morning after the wedding night, the husband puts his bloody dagger on his shoulder and makes the rounds in order to obtain general admiration.'

By M.A.S. Mustafa, of Djibouti,
from the thesis of Dr. Alan David

'The little girl, entirely nude, is immobilised in the sitting position on a low stool by at least three women. One of them with her arms tightly around the little girl's chest; two others hold the child's thighs apart by force, in order to open wide the vulva. The child's arms are tied behind her back, or immobilized by two other women guests. The traditional operator says a short prayer: "Allah is great and Mahomet is His Prophet. May Allah keep away all evils." Then she spreads on the floor some offerings to Allah: split maize, or, in urban areas, eggs. Then the old woman takes her razor and excises the clitoris. The infibulation follows: the operator cuts with her raxor from top to bottom of the small lip and then scrapes the flesh from the inside of the large lip. This nymphectomy and scraping are repeated on the other side of the vulva. The little girl howls and writhes in pain, although strongly held down. The operator wipes the blood from the wound and the mother, as well as the guests, "verify" her work, sometimes putting their fingers in. The amount of scraping of the large lips depends upon the "technical" ability of the operator. The opening left for urine and menstrual blood is miniscule. Then the operator applies a paste and ensures the adhesion of the large lips by means of an acacia thorn, which pierces one lip and passes through into the other. She sticks in three or four in this manner down the vulva. These thorns are then held in place either by means of sewing thread, or with horse-hair. Paste is again put on the wound. But all this is not sufficient to ensure the coalescence of the large lips; so the little girl is then tied up from her pelvis to her feet: strips of material rolled up into a rope immobilize her legs entirely. Exhausted, the little girl is then dressed and put on a bed. The operation lasts from fifteen to twenty minutes according to the ability of the old woman and the resistance put up by the child.'

"Our duty as activists is to expose and denounce as human rights violations those practices and policies that
silence and subordinate women."
- HRC 2004

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